Neil Keegan - Founder
“Enhanced Sense Living, is a transformative self-improvement and personal growth platform aimed at guiding individuals to view their life experiences with a heightened perspective. It emphasizes learning, growth, and the active pursuit of personal evolution. Enhanced Sense Living empowers individuals to recognize the significance of each moment, find meaning in everyday life, and approach life with intention.”
“Since discovering Enhanced Sense Living, I’ve been more mindful of the events in my life while simultaneously becoming more kind and patient with myself. Enhanced Sense Living has helped me to strengthen my inner compass with both more clarity and genuine hope.”
Henry Chhum, San Jose, California.
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Life is a series of chapters. Some chapters bring dramatic transformations while others are quieter, characterized by consistency rather than change. For many of us, these periods of relative calm can seem endless, particularly if we are yearning for change or if dissatisfaction clouds our perspective. However, these interims between significant shifts are more than just waiting periods. They are opportunities for learning, growth, and self-discovery.
Life is a roller coaster of emotions and experiences, and stress is an inevitable part of the journey. It can push us to our maximum tolerance and perhaps even beyond. However, recognizing the pattern of stress - its ebb and flow - can be a crucial tool in navigating life's challenges.
Sometimes, the people around us can offer insights into our character that we might overlook. While it's often unintentional and can sometimes come off as offensive, these seemingly insensitive remarks can contain a kernel of truth about our character or actions. Taking these instances as opportunities for self-enhancement can foster personal growth.
In our interactions with others, we all strive to maintain amicable relations without compromising our individuality. However, given the diversity of human nature, disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable. How we navigate through these instances of discord can significantly impact our overall well-being and personal growth.
In the face of difficulties, especially in relationships with loved ones, finding healthy ways to cope is essential. One effective coping mechanism involves shifting your focus to productive tasks, transforming the turmoil into an exertion of effort and energy.
Relationships with loved ones can be a great source of joy, but they also have their challenging moments. Disagreements and conflicts are inevitable. However, the way we respond to these difficulties can shape the course of our relationships, contributing to a smoother journey through life and enhancing our overall lifestyle.
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Life changes from time to time, but in between these changes are long periods where things are the same. In the last ten years, my life has been changing in a good way and there have been some, what I would call landmark changes, mixed in with other smaller changes. The spaces in between the changes are important for me for a couple of reasons. They help me adjust and prepare for what comes next.
Every day, from when I wake up to when I go to bed, my life is a series of choices. And each choice is important. Recognizing the clues and what is a clue is the key for me. Just as important as choosing the right thing to do is recognizing when I should stop doing something.
Another thing that I involuntarily do is to think about different periods from my past. They are all things that I regret but when I'm stuck in this mode of looking back, I am able to see the experience in a different way to how I saw it before. And this can be quite jarring, but seeing what I did without any of the emotions attached to it is definitely a good thing for me.
The worst thing I can do to someone is to try to control them. Individual freedom is very important and nobody wants to feel like they can’t decide for themselves what to do. A lot of my trouble and conflict with people comes from me. Even the very small things, like how a conversation goes, requires me to be sensitive or even hyper-sensitive to the flow of the conversation and the motivations of the people involved.
Between periods of action, I've learned to cherish the times when I simply have to wait. These moments demand patience, as change - whether in family, job or everything else - can only happen in one area at a time. These small improvements and changes are the signs that my life is steadily progressing.
I've learned the importance of seizing the right opportunity at the right time. Recognising when I've chosen to do the wrong thing is as crucial as understanding when it's time to stop and change course. The timing of our actions can save us a lot of trouble.
I've come to understand that everyone has their own viewpoints. It's not about convincing them to adopt mine, but rather to appreciate the diversity of thoughts and ideas. By refraining from arguing and instead fully committing to what I've chosen, I've learned to win without necessarily needing to be right.
Acknowledging my motives has allowed me to view myself more objectively. This clarity has significantly transformed how I interact with those around me. Despite the optimism, I understand that people may let me down, and that's on me. However, resilience lies in getting up, dusting off and moving forward.
The repetitive scenarios in life are not always negative; sometimes, they're catalysts for growth. When an unwelcome situation repeats, we often dread that it would go as horribly wrong as the previous time. Yet, we find ourselves let off from the severity of the past. This is a chance to reflect on the steady improvements in life, nudging us towards better outcomes and resilience.
The small, seemingly insignificant incidents and interactions in life can echo in our minds, amplified to an unbearable volume. These repetitive thoughts can shape our perception, stressing us over minute details, which may seem like some form of mental torture. However, it's these micro-managed life elements that make us who we are.
We often grapple with uncontrollable situations, trying to steer them towards outcomes we deem best. Yet, it's crucial to trust the process and accept the way things turn out. This acceptance isn't always easy when confronted with unfavorable situations. However, keeping faith in eventual progress and acknowledging the current state as the best, for now, can slowly redefine who we are.
Criticism often poses an internal dilemma: Do we need to change? We're often shown areas for improvement through criticisms, nudging us to adapt our behavior. However, there's a thin line between self-improvement and morphing ourselves into someone else's desired image. As we navigate through this challenge, reaffirming that we've done the right thing underpins our self-confidence, helping us to maintain authenticity amidst change.
The future can be scary and unpredictable. What we CAN do though is to start looking at the patterns that our lives are following. So if we pay attention to the patterns and the way things turn out we will have a better idea of what will happen. And most importantly we can stop worrying so much and trust that this time, as it was last time, everything will turn out fine.
But the main way these things affect us is that they slightly change WHO we are so that the next time it happens we will react differently. After a difficult time we should notice these changes. Nothing has really changed on the outside but on the inside we are slightly different.
So our lives change and we change and this pattern repeats again and again until we are very different to the people we were at the beginning. But not only that, these changes are making us stronger for the next thing and the next thing. So that we are always able to deal with what is coming up. And in this way we can trust that the future is something we are ready for.
When we regret things that we’ve done we also see what we did right and what we did wrong in a situation. And when we revisit these situations as we remember them we strengthen what is right and what is wrong for us. This then becomes a powerful tool for us to use in the present, and it is especially useful when we are faced with challenging situations.
The things we should do will give us experiences that have the potential to change us slightly. They will change how we feel about our lives and ourselves, and give us a different way of looking at everything. Even when these feelings have gone, they have already changed us slightly and permanently.
We need to be willing to get results that are not what we really want now because it is the best thing for the big picture later. We can choose the way we KNOW is the best because WE know that our decision is not selfish and our choice comes from good intentions.
If we feel that things are starting to turn on us either with the people around us or with the thing we are doing, we should always look for something that can mentally or physically engage us. We always need to read what’s possible at the time because forcing something to happen will never turn out to be fun for anyone.
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