Experiences We Should Be Deciding to Have
The things we should do will give us experiences that have the potential to change us slightly. They will change how we feel about our lives and ourselves, and give us a different way of looking at everything. Even when these feelings have gone, they have already changed us slightly and permanently.
How Do We Recognize the Best Way to Go?
We need to be willing to get results that are not what we really want now because it is the best thing for the big picture later. We can choose the way we KNOW is the best because WE know that our decision is not selfish and our choice comes from good intentions.
When Things are Starting to Go Wrong
If we feel that things are starting to turn on us either with the people around us or with the thing we are doing, we should always look for something that can mentally or physically engage us. We always need to read what’s possible at the time because forcing something to happen will never turn out to be fun for anyone.
Purpose in What We are Going Through
Every purpose is trying to improve our lives in a small or sometimes a big way, but it’s best to think of them as building blocks on the way to a bigger purpose. Purposes are pieces of the puzzle that help us to make gains in our lives if we can focus on them and commit to them.
How We Affect Other People
In all our dealings with people, there is a line we can cross between what is best for us and what is not. We have the power to affect other people’s lives in decision-making and daily interactions. By being conscious of our actions, we can better protect the personal freedom of those around us.
Knowing Our Main Focus Everyday
The responsibility we have towards living our lives in the best way possible is an umbrella over everything else. To give our lives the respect they deserve, we need to pay attention to life's clues, make the necessary changes, act timely, and affect people appropriately.
Looking at the Changes We Want and Seeing the Changes We Got
Progress in life is often subtle, and the feeling of a situation being lighter than before is a sure sign of progress. By measuring our lives in weeks and years, we can see the bigger picture and truly appreciate the changes we have made.
Living in the Way that Benefits Us the Most
Taking care of our lives requires constant attention. By understanding the significant things we need to do daily, being mindful of how we share our emotions, and valuing our experiences, we can nurture our lives effectively.
What You Need to Know to Live Your Life in the Right Way
Your life has stages. Each one with a number of opportunities for you to act in the best way that benefits you. Timing is crucial. You should always be doing the thing that needs to be done at the right time. Being aware of every small detail of your life will bring the future closer to you.
Experiences That Will Change You Into a Different Person
Experiences that change you make you think you are not good enough, but actually, they set you on a process that leads to personal improvement. As you feel the need to meet the standard you set for yourself, slowly over time this changes you for the better.
These Limits to Your Life Give You Something Very Important
Your life has limits. These limits give you a finite space to grow out of. You need time to face the challenges in this part of your life. Once you've outgrown this space, you move on to the next area with new boundaries. These boundaries are not restricting, but a path to the freedom to live your life how you want to.
Events that Change You Forever
These transformative life events, big or small, have the power to alter our perception of ourselves, our goals, and our aspirations. They can make us feel more meaningful and motivated, or at times, lost and less meaningful. But this state of flux is a powerful place to be, a blank canvas filled with potential.
Events That Take Your Life Where it Needs to Go
The challenging and sometimes unpleasant events that come our way are catalysts of change, pushing us to act and react, thus guiding our lives in the direction it needs to go. These seemingly random occurrences alter our life course and open a new path of possibilities and personal growth.
Being Blocked and Having Limited Choices
Everyday choices may seem abundant but are often funneled and blocked, limiting our perceived freedom. But recognizing this can empower us. By being sensitive to what’s working and what’s not, we can respond smartly, not impulsively, thereby expanding our potential choices and avoiding unnecessary frustrations.
Leaving Space in Your Life for What Comes Next
Leave some space in your life for what comes next. This process takes time. But wherever you are up to in your life, it's important to know that your life is not as bad as it may seem. And although progress is slow, you are moving forward into a better place.
The Patterns That Help You to Know if Something Won’t Happen
Our lives follows patterns and these patterns include the majority of things that happen to you. An important point to note about all of these patterns is that you need to see them happening in your life. If you can be aware of them, you can better understand how your life is working, you can predict your future more accurately and this will help you to feel safer.
How People Behave Around You is the Best Way to Know What’s Repeating
Looking at them just as people allows you to see more clearly how they are behaving and how they are affecting you. And if you can see that they are exhibiting repeat behavior then their actions will be predictable. Throughout your day you can gauge how you are doing by how people are acting and what situations are repeating, which will help you to gain confidence in how your life works.
Your Ability to Recognize What Needs to be Done
How you manage your time and your ability to recognize what needs to be done and when is something that you need to be constantly aware of. Thoughts often pop into your head about what you should do next. These are instinctual thoughts about the best thing to do, which can greatly affect your day and overall life.
Memories That are Showing You Something Important
Remembering times when you had emotional pain is important. These memories, which often come back to you again and again, show you how far you have moved away from the pain and how much it still affects you. Pay attention to them. What are they showing you and why is that relevant to you right now?
A Way to Think About the Future
The way you think about the future can greatly benefit you in the present. Understand what makes you stressed or worried about the immediate future. Most of these things might be out of your control. But having this stress will make you better at dealing with stress in the future, enabling you to make good decisions when under pressure.